For ten years starting in 1968 Christian Life Magazine
published a list compiled by Elmer Towns, who was a Sunday School Guru, listing
the top 100 Sunday Schools in America.   
In 1974 the largest Sunday School in the US and assumedly in
the world was First Baptist Church in Hammond Indiana with an average weekly
attendance of 11,303, in Sunday School.  They
had 165 buses operating, reported 8,040 baptisms that year and had an income of
almost 3 million dollars.
Sunday school conferences were the norm for Pastors who
wanted to see their churches grow and churches that didn’t offer Sunday School
programs were considered to be weak and ineffectual and maybe even not
But twenty years later that was changing.  In 1994 when Cornerstone was in the planning
stages we made the conscious decision to not have Sunday School.   Part of it was practical, we didn’t have any
Sunday School teachers and we would have had to pony up more cash to rent our
facilities for a longer period of time. 
But it went beyond the practical. 
In the two previous churches I had pastored we had offered Sunday School
and I had watched the commitment of both students and teachers waning.  
It takes a lot of commitment to make Sunday School happen,
teachers who have to commit to prepare lessons every week, often for 52 weeks a
year, year after year.  Parents who had
to commit to bring their kids to Sunday School. 
It was a constant struggle to recruit teachers and students and keep
them motivated. 
And so twenty years ago when we launched it was without a
Sunday School program, instead we were committed to providing a high quality
children’s program.  And for the first 14
years that was run by Angela and for the last six years Pastor Marilyn taken
the lead and it has worked.
And there are folks who still call our programs Sunday
School, but they really aren’t.
And in churches everywhere there were staples with the
Sunday School programs.  There was the
opening session where they played games that helped them memorize scripture and
sang songs to help them learn bible stories. 
And then the kids went to their classrooms where they would learn the
stories from the bible, often from Flannel graphs.  And all the kids and often the adults would
be learning the same things each week just presented at a level appropriate for
their age level.
Flannel Graph Story
of Mary and Martha.
She was a little steamed, actually she was a lot ticked and
who could blame her.  Sure she had been
the one who had invited the company over, but it wasn’t just her home, I mean
her sister could do a little bit to help out. 
Instead she just sat there staring up at their guest as if it was the
first time she’d ever seen the man, when the truth was they had practically
grown up together.  And so she walked a
little louder, actually it was pretty close to stomping, and banged the pots a
little more than necessary, actually a lot more than necessary and she sighed a
lot and not little sighs either, these we full blown asthmatic sighs that were
not to be missed.  And yet they were
missed, their guest continued to teach and her sister sat mesmerized, hanging
on every word that he said.  And Martha
was a little steamed, actually she was a lot ticked and who could blame her.
We read the story earlier in the service.  Mary and Martha were the sisters of Jesus’
good friend Lazarus and it would appear from different gospel accounts that
Jesus spent a fair amount of time at their home.  On this specific occasion Jesus was
travelling past on one of his journeys and Martha invited him to come and stay
with her family.  When Jesus arrived he
sat down and began to speak, we don’t know if he was teaching, or if he was
telling them of his journey or just shooting the breeze.  Whatever it was Mary was soon entranced with
his words and sat at his feet hanging on to every word.  If you ever saw the CBS mini-series “Jesus” you
might remember they actually portrayed Mary as having a crush on Jesus, and it
could have happened.  He was a likeable
type of guy who obviously was well respected, had a trade and came from a good
family.  A girl could do worse than
But the story really isn’t about Mary at all; it’s about her
sister, Martha.  It had been Martha who
had invited Jesus into her home and she was bound and determined that everything
would be perfect for Jesus.  And so she
began to fuss around, cleaning up and getting supper ready.  At first it wasn’t bad but the longer she
worked the more she began to resent the fact that her sister was just sitting
there, doing nothing.  And finally she
couldn’t stand it any longer, in Australia they would say that she spit the
dummy or got her knickers in a knot, and she blurted out, “excuse me, doesn’t
anybody think this might be more than a little unfair, me playing Cinderella,
while her highness sits on her duff and does nothing.”  Or something to that effect.
And Jesus responded by saying “Martha, don’t sweat the
little stuff, and this is all little stuff. 
Right now Mary has discovered what is really important, and I’m not
going to put a damper on that.”
I wonder what Martha’s response was?  It’s not recorded but somehow I don’t think
she said “Oh I’m sorry Lord, I didn’t realize.” 
What can we learn from Martha in this story? 
Let’s go back and look at the story, Luke 10:38 As Jesus and the disciples continued on their way to Jerusalem, they
came to a certain village where a woman named Martha welcomed him into her
We Can Learn to be
Like Martha. 
For better or worse Martha had a servant’s heart.  Years ago a friend of mine, actually the
engineer who designed our building referred to engineers as “The Sons of
Martha” and that comes from a poem that Kipling wrote in it he
The Sons of Mary seldom bother,
for they have inherited that good part;
But the Sons of Martha favour their Mother of the careful
soul and the troubled heart.
And because she lost her temper once, and because she was
rude to the Lord her Guest,
Her Sons must wait upon Mary’s Sons, world without end,
reprieve, or rest.
We have talked in the past about spiritual gifts, that is to
say the gifts that are given to each believer for the building up of the
Depending on who you talk to the list include things like,
prophecy, speaking in unknown languages, healing, teaching and leadership.  And right in the middle of all of that is the
gift of hospitality, or entertaining.  A
very valid gift and a very important gift. 
It is referred to in scriptures like 1 Peter 4:9-10 Cheerfully share your home with those who need a meal or a
place to stay. God has given each of you a gift from his great variety of
spiritual gifts. Use them well to serve one another. As well as Romans 12:13 When God’s people are in need, be ready to help
them. Always be eager to practice hospitality.
And Hebrews 13:2 Don’t forget
to show hospitality to strangers, for some who have done this have entertained
angels without realizing it!
Do you remember that last scripture from the King James, it
says: Hebrews
not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels
unawares. When I first
heard that I wondered who would want to entertain angels in underwear.  Talk about strange mind pictures.
So we need to be like Martha in the sense that she knew what
her giftedness was, and she was willing to put it to use.  She was one of those people whose home was
always open.  As believers one of the
most frustrating things in life can be trying to do things that we not gifted
for, it goes back to the trying to put square pegs in round holes. 
Now sometimes we can fill a temporary need, and that’s
valid.  But for the most part our place
of service ought to be where we are spiritually gifted.  When we find where that is, and then we exercise
that gift we not only feel fulfilled we are fulfilled.
Mary Lou Retton  said 
As simple as it sounds, we all must try to be
the best person we can: by making the best choices, by making the most of the
talents we’ve been given.
But spiritual gifts are more than simply talents, they are
gifts given to Christians from the Holy Spirit, for the purpose of seeing the
Kingdom of God grow.  And every Christian
has at least one spiritual gift, and most of us have several, some stronger,
some not nearly as evident.  That’s part
of why Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 12:4-6 There
are different kinds of spiritual gifts, but the same Spirit is the source of
them all. There are different kinds of service, but we serve the same Lord. God
works in different ways, but it is the same God who does the work in all of us.
But how do you find out what your gift is?  One of the easiest ways is to take a
spiritual gift inventory, it’s like a personality test except it helps us to
identify our spiritual giftedness.  If
you interested let me know and I’ll get a copy to you.  But many of us know what our giftedness is,
because that’s where we feel comfortable.
One of the easiest ways to determine that is by asking two
questions:  1) Do I enjoy this? and 2) Do
I do it well?  The first question can
only be answered by you; the second question may have to be answered honestly
by someone else.  Notice that I said
Not like the train wrecks who get panned on American Idol then
tell the judges: “But all my friends say I can sing.”  And I can only think of a couple of
explanations for that
1) Nobody in their life knows anything about music. And
maybe there are some bizarre little communities out there where horrific
singing is something to be admired and praised. I’ve never heard a hint of such
a community and as strange as it may seem it be it can’t be as strange as the
only other alternative and that is
2) People who say they love these folks would lie to them
about their singing abilities setting them up for ridicule and
humiliation.  And they would probably
defend their actions by saying they didn’t want to hurt their feelings.
For the church to function at its optimum level every
believer has to be exercising his or her spiritual gifts.  Paul uses the analogy of the body time and
time again to describe the church, and for a body to operate the way it was
designed each element does the work that it was designed to do.  The nose smells, the eyes see, the ears hear.
That’s the way it’s supposed to work, and we are told that often if one part
doesn’t work the way it’s supposed to that other parts take up the load.  And so a blind person may have a heightened
sense of hearing or smell to help offset the disability of not being able to
But that’s not the way it’s supposed to be and it’s not
nearly as effective.  In the same way
when some believers don’t use their spiritual gifts to help the kingdom grow
then the gap will have to be filled by someone else, perhaps someone who isn’t
gifted there but is willing to help carry the load.  But that’s not the way it’s supposed to be
and it’s not nearly as effective. Think about what happens when things get
mixed up and your nose runs and your feet smell.
If Cornerstone is going to be everything that God intends
Cornerstone to be.  And if we are going
to impact the people that God wants us to impact.  And if we are going to do all that God
intends for us to do it will be when “We” not “Me” does it. 
We’ve been here before but everyone here, everyone here has
an ability, a gift, a “something” that they could and should contribute to the
Kingdom, and often as Christ followers we do it through the local church.
Do you ever stop and think about how many people are
volunteering on a typical Sunday morning to make all this seem seamless.  So that adults and children can be lead into
God’s throne room?  This morning there
are 35 people who will be involved in some way today between the two
services.  From nursery to greeting to
making coffee and cleaning up afterwards to children’s ministry and platform
ministry and in the sound booth.  That
doesn’t include anyone who draws a salary.
And there is something you could be doing and something you
should be doing and if you are honest than you know that there is someplace at
Cornerstone that you can serve. 
And so the good is that Martha knew her spiritual gift and
was willing to put it to work.  But like
everything in life, balance is a wonder thing. 
Her sister, Mary, sat at the Lord’s
feet, listening to what he taught. But Martha was distracted by the big dinner
she was preparing.  And it is while
Martha is exercising her spiritual gift that the wheels kind of come off the
Martha had at least an elementary
grasp of who Jesus was because she called him Lord.  If she didn’t recognize him as the Son of God
or the Messiah she at least identified him as being a teacher or a Rabbi, and
we don’t have to look too far through the gospels to discover that Martha and
her siblings were friends of Christ.  So,
I wonder why she invited him to their house? 
Was it just to eat or had she
invited him to come so she could enjoy his company and to hear what he had to
say.  I would suspect that it was that
the latter.  I mean if she just wanted to
provide him with a meal she could have given him five deanari and sent him to McMalaci’s
or someplace. 
But as so often happens the good
soon eclipses the best.  And so in an
attempt to be the best hostess that she can be, to provide the cleanest
possible house, and to make the best meal she can, she neglects the very reason
she’s doing it.  Have you ever done that,
invited company over and by the time the evenings over, the dishes are done,
the kitchen’s cleaned up you realize that you didn’t get to spend any time with
your company.
There was a couple in our church in
Australia who had this hospitality thing down pat, if you stopped there to say
hello or to pick up your kids there was a pretty good chance that you would end
up staying for a meal.  Nothing fancy,
just put some more water in the soup, but they were some of the best times we
had.  We have known other people who
wouldn’t think of having you in there house unless everything was perfect,
nothing could be out of place and the meal, it had to be a five star event,
which inevitably meant that you never got invited to their house, or if you did
you didn’t get to visit they were way too busy getting ready for you to
actually have anytime for you.
We Can Learn to Not be Like Martha.  
You see,   Martha got so caught up in serving
Jesus that she didn’t take the time to know Jesus.  And that doesn’t just happen when we are
beating around the kitchen.  We can take
course after course, read book after book, go to seminar after seminar and
never take the time to actually sit at Jesus feet and build a relationship with
Him.  And to be truthful Jesus probably
would have preferred a tuna sandwich and Martha’s company to the fancy meal she
was so busy preparing.
What is it that distracts you from
getting to know Jesus better?  What keeps
you from having the relationship with Jesus that you would really like to
have?  What would it take for you to slow
down and sit at His feet and listen to what he has to say?
But that wasn’t the worst part of
the story.
And so Martha is busy being the
hostess with the mostess and before long she notices that she’s doing all the
work, which knowing Martha was what she wanted but she wanted it on her
terms.  You understand there’s a
difference between doing everything after someone has offered to help and
you’ve turned them down, and doing everything and nobodies even offered.  And it would appear that Mary hadn’t even
offered, she just plopped down at Jesus feet and became engrossed in what he
was saying. 
The text tells us that Mary wasn’t
helping but neither was Lazarus, or any of the disciples.  Sometimes we overwork our volunteers because
nobody else steps up to the plate.  And
maybe they offered and Martha turned them down, after all it was her house and
her kitchen, but maybe they were content to just sit back and enjoy the service
they were getting and it didn’t even cross their minds that they could help
And that goes back to the Sunday
morning thing, we come in take a bulletin from a greeter, drop the kids off in
Nursery or Jr. Church, come out and grab a coffee and then we go in and enjoy
the worship, without ever thinking “I wonder how I could help out.”
And Martha was not in the least bit
impressed.  But she couldn’t really lash
out at Peter and James and John and the other nine so she lashed out at her
Luke 10:40
But Martha was distracted by the big dinner she was preparing. She came to
Jesus and said, “Lord, doesn’t it seem unfair to you that my sister just sits
here while I do all the work? Tell her to come and help me.”   And this is where things got
It was here that Martha spit the
dummy.  If you close your eyes you can
almost picture her standing there, a tea towel over one shoulder, a smudge of
flour on her nose and her hands on her hips. 
She’s not a happy camper. 
What should have been a great time
for everyone suddenly became very awkward, Martha’s little tiff was in front of
everyone.  There are a couple of warnings
here for us.  First:  Martha
Insisted That Mary Share Her Spiritual Gift
.  I mean after all if she had the gift of
hospitality than everyone should the gift of hospitality.  But that isn’t the way it works, but often we
can get caught up in thinking that. 
Especially with gifts like mercy, or intersession, that is the gift of
prayer or the gift of helps. 
We kind of feel like: if I can pray
for four hours than everyone ought to be able to pray for four hours.  And if there’s nothing I love more than doing
hospital calls then everyone should feel that way.  When I was in Truro I had a retired gentleman
in my church who worked as my lay assistant helping with visitation.  And it was nothing for Don to visit 4 or 5
hundred people during the year, yes that’s right four or five hundred people, people
who were in the hospital or nursing homes or were shut-ins. 
And he did it so well, the gift of
mercy was right up at the top of Don’s gift blend. Don lived to call on people,
But he never tried to make me feel spiritually inferior because I didn’t have
the spiritual gift of mercy in the same way he did.  But on the other hand while he was using his
gift blend of mercy and compassion I was using my gift blend of Teaching and
Leadership and saw the church grow and move into a building project. 
Secondly Martha allowed herself to be consumed by bitterness.  I’ve said this before you will never, ever be
responsible for another believer’s behaviour but you will always be responsible
for your own.  Martha wasn’t responsible
for what Mary was or wasn’t doing.  But
when she allowed envy to rear its head she became responsible for that. 
I don’t think it was so much that
Martha wished that Mary would do what she was doing.  I think that Martha was envious of what Mary
was doing, but instead of asking herself “Why aren’t I doing that?”  She found it easier to attack Mary, not for
what she was doing, I mean how can you condemn a person for listening to
Christ, but instead for what she wasn’t doing.  
But that wasn’t the issue.
And Jesus recognized that, listen
to what he says Luke
But the Lord said to her, “My dear
Martha, you are worried and upset over all these details! There is only one
thing worth being concerned about. Mary has discovered it, and it will not be
taken away from her.”
What was the one thing that Mary
had discovered that Martha hadn’t?  I
don’t know it doesn’t tell us, but somehow I have a sneaking suspicion that it
has something to do with his words in Matthew 6:33 Seek the
Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything
you need.  What is your primary
concern?  And if someone was to define
your spiritual walk, where would it end up. 
I trust that your desire is to serve him.  To get to know Jesus better and to exercise
your spiritual gifts.