I love the distance between my birthday
and Christmas, it’s perfect.  It divides
the year in half, when I was a kid I knew that I would get gifts in June and
then again in December.  I always felt
sorry for the kids whose birthdays were close to Christmas, not just in
December but in November and January. 
There was always at least eleven months before you got more stuff. 
Not for me, there were gifts at Christmas
and then six months later it the middle of June there were more gifts
I’m not nearly as excited about birthdays
these days, I guess that I’d agree with Groucho Marx
who said “Getting older is no problem. You just have
to live long enough.”  If the
downside of birthdays is that you are getting older the upside is you get
How about you?  Do you like getting gifts?  Sure you do. 
We say it’s better to give then to receive but receiving has a lot to be
said about it as well.  And there are
gifts and then there are gifts, a pair of socks is a gift, but a new BMW
convertible, now that’s a gift.  
If you are a Christian then you’ve
received the greatest of all gifts because the Bible tells us in the book of Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is
eternal life through Christ Jesus our Lord.

Now that’s a gift.  That’s not all because we are offered another
gift as well after we get that first gift, listen to what Peter tells us in the
book of Acts 2:38 Peter replied, “Each of you must repent of your sins, turn to God, and be
baptized in the name of Jesus Christ to show that you have received forgiveness
for your sins. Then you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.
But for the believer the gifts don’t stop
there.  Because when you come into a
relationship with Jesus Christ, not only do you become a child of God, but you
become a gifted child.  Maybe you’ve
heard people talking about spiritual gifts or the gifts of the Spirit and
wondered what they were and how you can get them. 
The answer to both the questions are
found in    1
Peter 4:10
God has given each of you a gift
from his great variety of spiritual gifts. Use them well to serve one another.
It’s like God has a gift closet and those
gifts are available for each of us and this morning we are going to look at
what that means.
1) We All Get a Gift There used to be a time that not
everyone at the birthday party received gifts, only the person whose birthday
it was got gifts.  Now parents have to
spend a fortune on grab bags to make sure everybody gets a gift. “Hey, kid it’s
not your birthday, you’ll get your chance.” 
But from the beginning we are
told that there is a gift for every believer, that there are no believers who
don’t have a gift from the spirit.  There
are believers who don’t use the gift or gifts they have been given, but they
have all been given at least one. 
Remember the scripture that we just read from 1 Peter, God has given gifts to each of you from his great variety
of spiritual gifts. Listen to what Paul says in Romans 12:6 In his grace,
God has given us different gifts for doing certain things well. So if God has
given you the ability to prophesy, speak out with as much faith as God has
given you.
And in 1 Corinthians 12:7 A
spiritual gift is given to each of us so we can help each other.
Now let’s clarify that your spiritual
gift isn’t necessarily your God given talent. 
Everybody has natural talents.  Miley
Cyrus is an incredible singer, she has buckets of talent and most people would
say that she was gifted, others would say other things about Miley but we’re
not going down that road. 
But singing isn’t Miley Cyrus spiritual
gift it’s her talent.  Talents are what
you are born with, spiritual gifts are what you are born again with.  Get it? 
How do I know that because we
are told in the scriptures that 1 Corinthians 12:7 A spiritual gift is given to each of us so we can help each
and in verse 11 of the same
chapter 1 Corinthians 12:11 It is the one and only Spirit who distributes all these
gifts. He alone decides which gift each person should have.
Well sure you say, but couldn’t
the spirit give his gifts to an unbeliever, well he could but he doesn’t.   Listen to Galatians
So I say, let the Holy Spirit guide
your lives. Then you won’t be doing what your sinful nature craves.
Now in math you may remember
that the way we prove a mathematical equation is by reversing it 1+2=3, but
only if 3-2=1.  So we can do the same
with scripture.  Turn Galations 5:16
around and it says:  If you are doing what your sinful nature craves then you
aren’t living in the Holy Spirit.  
Listen to what James the brother of Christ wrote in the letter he wrote
James 3:12
Does a
fig tree produce olives, or a grapevine produce figs? No, and you can’t draw
fresh water from a salty spring.
So can a person whose life is not
controlled by the Spirit of God exhibit gifts which the Bible plainly tells us
are given by the Spirit of God for use in the body of believers, I don’t think
2) We All Get Different Gifts The scriptures that we read earlier spoke of believers getting
different gifts or special gifts.  The
problem is that when anyone talks about the gifts of the spirit most people
automatically think that it’s the gift of tongues that’s being referred
to.  And that is limiting the power of
the Holy Spirit, because in reality there are at least 20 different spiritual
gifts listed in the New Testament.  And
Paul tells us over and over again that we don’t all get the same gift.  He uses the analogy of a body to represent
the Christian church and tells us that each part of the body performs a
function that is essential for the body to properly function. 
It doesn’t take a genius to figure out
that a body that was nothing but eyes would never get anywhere, and a body
consisting solely of feet, would never see anything.   We need our eyes to see, our arms to hold,
our feet to walk, our ears to hear, etc.  
A body without all it’s parts wouldn’t be whole and it wouldn’t matter
if you tried to substitute, “Well I might only have one leg but I have three
eyes.”  It still wouldn’t be whole.  And so within the family of God, the church, we
have people who each have a spiritual gift which is needed, and they aren’t all
the same gift.
The gifts most clearly mentioned in the
Bible are found in a several different verses and include wisdom, knowledge, faith, healing, miracles, prophecy,
discernment, tongues, interpretation, apostleship, teaching, helps,
administration, encouragement, giving, leadership, mercy, evangelism,
pastoring, hospitality.  Now I’m
not saying that this is an exhaustive list of spiritual gifts, I’m just saying
that these are the most clearly defined. 
Now we don’t have time to define and deal with each of those gifts this
morning, if you want more information do a search for Spiritual Gift Inventory
and you’ll find all kinds of resources.
3) We Don’t All Need The Same Gift  Sometimes as children it is
natural to compare ourselves with others, I wish I could run like Bob, or I
wish I had hair like Suzy or I wish I could sing like Mary.  Come to think of it we never really grow out
of making those comparison do we?  Within
the Kingdom of God sometimes we put certain gifts on
pedestals and people look at them and say wow I wish I had the gift of
Now this isn’t a unique problem,
 Paul had to deal with it in the church
in Corinth and
he used the analogy of the body that we spoke of earlier 1 Corinthians 12:14-18 Yes,
the body has many different parts, not just one part. If the foot says, “I am
not a part of the body because I am not a hand,” that does not make it any less
a part of the body. And if the ear says, “I am not part of the body because I
am not an eye,” would that make it any less a part of the body? If the whole
body were an eye, how would you hear? Or if your whole body were an ear, how
would you smell anything? But our bodies have many parts, and God has put each
part just where he wants it.
4) We Have Our Gifts For A Reason  God doesn’t just give us a gift so we won’t feel bad because we didn’t
get a gift.  This isn’t a kid’s birthday
party, ss believers we are given our Spiritual gifts
for a reason. 
The scriptures are very plain that we
aren’t given spiritual gifts for selfish reasons, and we’re not given them so
we can gloat about them, we are given them so we can serve God’s people, the
church.  Listen again to the Bible 1 Corinthians 12:7 A
spiritual gift is given to each of us so we can help each other.  The gifts of the spirit are given to
the believer for a very special purpose and that is to advance the kingdom of
God.  At this time I need a couple of
helpers to hand out ministry involvement sheets.  Plain and simple, each one of us is here for
a reason, and each of you who call Cornerstone your home church is here for a
reasons.  Maybe you sitting there
thinking “I’m not sure if Cornerstone is my home church or not.”  Here’s a hint, if this is where you come to
church most of the time it’s your home church. 
Years ago I was pastoring in a different
community and there was a gentleman in our church who attended every service,
but his home had been a small community 50 kms away.  And it was the church in that community that
he gave to, and he never gave much time to our church but if needed he would
drive 50 kms and do work around that church. 
And that was wrong, he was being fed
spiritually at our church, he was receiving his spiritual care at our church,
his children grew up going to our Sunday School and youth group and yet his
heart and his money were elsewhere. 
That’s like ordering a Big Mac at MacDonalds and paying for it at Burger
King.  He was parking on somebody else’s
Everyone have a form? Good, let’s take a
look at them.
4) How We Should Use our Gifts  (We did this with a Drama team as an improve)
Ok, let’s set up a scenario, you’re at a
dinner party with seven other people each of who have one of the spiritual
gifts listed in the scripture that was read this morning.  You’ve all had a wonderful dinner and you’re
just settling back for dessert.  Your
hostess is bringing out the tray with all your desserts when she drops it,
breaking dishes and scattering dessert all over the floor. 
The response of each person there should
be governed by their spiritual gift.  The
person with the gift of serving would jump up and say, “Let
me help you clean that up” They give practical assistance to fulfill a
need.  These are great people to have
around because they are always ready to serve. 
The one with the gift of teaching would
say “Now the reason that fell was because it was too
heavy on one side and it was off balance” Their gift allows them to
bring life lessons in such a way as to bring clarity to difficult situations.
The guy with the gift of prophecy doesn’t
say anything because he had already said “Don’t bring
them all out at once, the tray will be too heavy” Often when we think of
someone with the gift of prophecy we think of someone who can tell the future,
when in reality it is usually someone who can tell us the consequences of our
actions especially in our spiritual life.
The person with the gift of encouragement
would say “Hey that’s ok, we didn’t need dessert
anyway.”  Don’t you love having
someone around who always says the right thing to lift our spirit; the person
with the gift of encouragement is there to give positive attitude for the
The person with the gift of giving has
already excused them self to run over to Tim’s and buy a box of donuts to serve
as dessert “I’ll go buy donuts”.  These
people don’t ask “how much should I give” but “How little do I need to get by on.”
The one with the gift of leadership is
saying “Fred go get a mop, Mary could you and Tom make
sure that all the glass is picked up” His or her gift is to cast the
vision and get people moving together toward a common goal. 
And the person with the gift of mercy
would have their arm around the hostess saying “Don’t
feel bad it could happen to anyone.”  The gift of mercy is not the gift of pity, it
is the gift of empathy, and it is sensitivity to the feelings of others.  Even though it’s not mentioned in Romans, it
is obvious that the hostess had the gift of hospitality.  Now I know that really oversimplifies things,
but hey I’m a simple kind of guy right.
Now there are a couple of warnings that
need to be issued here.  Don’t use your
gift blend to excuse you from doing other things.  Well I haven’t got the gift of hospitality so
I don’t invite people over, that may be but don’t forget we have scriptures
When God’s people are in need, be
ready to help them. Always be eager to practice hospitality.
Others say I don’t have the gift of
giving so I don’t give.  Uh-huh, we are
commanded to give the tithe or 10% if we are a believer, the person with the
gift of giving gives over and above that. 
God does not give us gifts to excuse us
from doing other things; instead it’s to allow us to go over and above in our
areas of giftedness.  Sometimes we need
to step outside of our comfort zone in order to remain in obedience to
God.  So sometimes even though we may not
feel that we have the gift of teaching we may have to teach, or that we don’t
have the gift of leadership we may have to lead.  Get it? 
If you were out for your evening walk and
saw a house on fire you wouldn’t say, “Well there’s a house on fire, I can’t do
anything to help because I’m not a fireman.” 
No you’d do your very best to help the people inside and put out the
fire until the professional arrived.  If
you happened on the scene of an accident and there were those who needed first
aid you wouldn’t ignore them because you weren’t a paramedic, you’d do what had
to be done until the right person arrived. 
Once the experts arrived, you step aside because they were better
equipped to deal with the situation.
And so in the work of the Kingdom of God there may be times that you need to
step outside of your giftedness in order to meet a need until the right person
comes along to meet that need.
There is a great story in the book of
Acts.  The Apostle Paul is on his way to Rome when the ship he was
on hit a reef and everyone had to abandon ship. 
They were in shallow water, close to land so they were able to make
their way to shore without any loss of life.
So here they are on the beach
at Malta,
wet, bedraggled and cold.  And in Acts 28:3 As Paul gathered
an armful of sticks and was laying them on the fire. . .
And you are thinking, so?  Paul was probably the most highly educated
person on the ship, he had at least the equivalent of our PhD.  He was one of the most highly respected
figures in the early church and he was gathering sticks.  You want to know why?  Because right then the sticks needed to be
The other danger is the danger of
transference, or expecting that others should do what you are gifted to
do.  You know that what you have to do to
be obedient to God and you presume that all believers have to do the same.  So the person with the gift of mercy can’t
figure out why others are so callous, well they may not be callous they just
might not have the gift of mercy.  Those
with the gift of giving shouldn’t expect everyone to feel compelled to give
like they do.   Those with the gift of
leadership shouldn’t expect everyone to lead.
Bottom line is that you are responsible
for your gift and nobody else’s and you’re responsible for being obedient to
God in using that gift. When you get to heaven, God will ask you what you did
with the gift that he gave you.  He’s not
going to ask what your spouse did with their gift or what the pastor did with
his gift, but you will be held responsible for your faithfulness with your
Can people have more than one spiritual gift?  Sure but there are usually one or two
prominent ones.  How do you find out what
your gift mix is there are several test out there that you can take, but here’s
a simple way, if you enjoy it and you do it well that is probably where your
spiritual gifts are.  And the two go
together; you can enjoy something and not be good at it. 
I’ve been looking for a place to
quote Red Green and this looks like the spot. 
Red Green
says “You are not good at something just
because you enjoy it. Karaoke has proved that. To my way of thinking, you are
not good at something because you enjoy it; rather you enjoy something because
you are good at it.”
And you can be good at something and really not enjoy it,
but when the two come together, it’s magic. 
But you won’t know unless you try it. 
And here’s my promise to you, if you try a ministry at Cornerstone and
it doesn’t fit we’re not going to make you keep doing it. We don’t want you to
be doing something just because we need it done, we aren’t interested in
jamming square pegs in round holes.  We
want you to fit where God wants you and where you will feel fulfilled. 
But at least be willing to try.