The Puzzle of Singleness

Where have all the married couples gone?  At least on television.  Have you noticed that there are very few married folks on television anymore?  These days you would be hard pressed to find a couple in a traditional marriage on prime time these days.  In Big Bang the only marriage couple you see are Raj’s…

4 The Puzzle of Childing

Do you remember TV families when you were a kid?  There seemed to be more extended ones then there are now, you know more families with several generations living under one roof.  The Waltons had their Grand Parents living with them, the Beverly Hillbillies had Granny, the Munsters had Grand Pa and the Adams family…

The Puzzle of Parenting

My oldest niece has a philosophy, actually she has many philosophies but I’m only going to share one with you today.  Her philosophy on parenting is this:  The government should put birth control in the water and people would have to pass a parenting test in order to get bottled water. Makes sense to me,…

The Puzzle of Marriage

It is said that Socrates was asked by a young man whether or not he would recommend marriage, Socrates replied by saying “By all means marry. If you get a good wife, you will become happy; and if you get a bad one, you will become a philosopher and the world needs more philosophers.”Last week…

The Puzzle of Family

It was Tolstoy who said “All happy families resemble one another; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.”Have you ever stopped to think that both the Old Testament and the New Testament start with the story of a family?  And the bible itself is a collection of family stories.  There are happy families…

Brand New Year Same Old Vision

Well here we are about 2000 years down the road from that first church.  I’m sure if Peter and John had of ever discussed the future of the Christian church that they could not have envisioned what it would be like 2000 years later. I mean 2000 years!  The Jewish religion wasn’t even 2000 years…

A Reflection of Tomorrow

A Reflection of TomorrowSo here is the question:  When do your put Christmas away?  We usually do it on New Year’s Day. You know; take down the tree and Christmas cards, remove the lights from outside the house, pack up the nativity scene.  And before the first day of the new year is finished so…

A Reflection of the Cradle and Grave

Transitions, in all of our lives there are transitions.  Times when our lives change and the lives of those around us change.  You know what I’m talking about because there are events that you are thinking about even as I speak.  Births, deaths, graduations, weddings, baptisms.  Transitions, times when our lives change.  And we have…

A Reflection of Trust

She was a critical piece of the puzzle.  And she truly is what makes Christmas Christmas.  She was the original Madonna and she put the word “Virgin” in songs two thousand years before “Like a Virgin” became a hit.   Through the years she’s been called The Holy Mary, Saint Mary, The Blessed Mother, The Mother…

A Reflection of Sacrifice

He’s always the forgotten one at Christmas.  Oh we remember the Christ child, how could we forget him, even in the shopping malls they sing about the birth of Christ and his name is even included in the very word Christmas.  Without Christ there would be no Christmas and so he’s remembered.  And his mother,…